In Loving Memory of Rhett Bernstein

It is with profound sadness that we share the passing of Rhett Bernstein (38), beloved son of longtime SAJAC members Colin and Linda Bernstein, and a cherished brother, uncle, partner, teammate, and friend.
 
A gentle giant with the kindest heart, Rhett had a remarkable way of making people feel as though they were the center of his universe. He formed deep friendships wherever he went and will be remembered for his warmth, loyalty, quick wit, joyful spirit, and unforgettable, infectious laugh.
 
Soccer shaped much of Rhett’s life. From Nomads and University City High School in San Diego, to Brown University and Team USA at the 2009 Maccabiah Games, he pursued the game with passion and determination. He went on to play professionally for Mjøndalen IF in Norway and Miami FC in the United States. His career was marked not only by talent, but by extraordinary resilience through injuries and setbacks. He showed those around him that dreams are achieved through humility, perseverance, hard work, and never giving up.
 
Rhett was deeply proud of his Jewish identity. From his leadership in AZA, to significant time spent in Israel, representing the United States at the Maccabiah Games, and choosing the number 18, chai, meaning “life,” for his professional career, Judaism remained central to who he was.
 
Above all, Rhett loved his family. He was the pride and joy of Colin and Linda, who supported him with unconditional love through every triumph, challenge, and new chapter. No matter where life took him, they made certain he always had a home to return to. He was a deeply loved brother to Brad and Taryn, brother-in-law to Nicole and Greg, devoted partner to Ana, and adored uncle to Nate, Coby, and Max. He was their biggest fan and cherished cheering at their games, kicking a ball with them, watching Manchester United, and sharing Shabbat dinners together.
 
Rhett also carried the warmth, humor, and familiar expressions of his South African Jewish family. A simple “Howzit,” “boykie,” or “boetie” could communicate an entire conversation and always made home feel close.
 
May his memory be a blessing.
 
Those wishing to honor Rhett’s memory may make a donation to Maccabi USA Soccer.